if you have a problem, please say so.

[mew2cool]

well i've noticed that people have problems with the way i deal with things and continue to misunderstand me time to time. So i would like to know if you people got a problem with me, rather than you say nothing and just talk about it behind my back. If i don't know there's a problem i can't really make it better.

So from now on, if you don't like something i do/say, PLEASE TELL ME ASAP. i don't bite your head off if you state your point in a reasonable matter.

so post here and tell me/ask me about those things that bug you and i'll answer. please be nice and you get a rational answer.

ppl i would like to post here:

zephy (you call me "person" or "cactus" or whatever all the time so i assume you have something against me. I know i don't like you calling me those and so do you)

kiera (well, i thought you were my friend, but apparently you're not. next time you want to complain, do so while i'm around and not after i leave. so post here and talk to me. person to person. like adults do.

reh (well i think i know most of your motives but tell them anyway, just to be sure)

m5 (you just seem hostile for some unknown reason)

m3 (i don't remember ever doing anything to you so i don't understandwhy you're being so cold to me. in fact i don't recall ever even TALKING to you)

oh and lastly. i DO NOT use emsie OR my condition to get things my way in the temple. i just want to be able to enjoy the same things than other members without having to modify my browser to remove lots of things or be in text mode just to go in the chat.(to your information, the white screen is too bright to be looked at comfortably for more than 10 minutes. it's a real bitch to switch windows all the time, so i'll much rather use the traditional style.)

[hakaryu]

I've never noticed mewfive being cold towards you but i can talk to him and get an answer for ya today or tomorrow

[mew2cool]

i dunno, mebbe i've gotten him wrong, anyway, i got nothing against him, i don't see him much, so i'm neutral.

[hakaryu]

He doesn't dislike anyone but he's a bit defensive around those he doesn't know well so he'll lash out at times

[Jaxtwo]

You left me out! ;_; XD Just joking.

Lemme put in my two cents, and hopefully I can do so without looking like a total moron.

You seem to have a very "strong" personality, and by that I mean it's difficult to tell whether you're being a jerk or just fooling around. I hate to say it, but you just tend to seem like you're trying to be a jerk. I've tended to think that that's not a bad thing, it's just your personality type, and it doesn't translate very well in a chat room. My friend Ryan is a great person to talk to in person, but he sounds like a pissant when he's online.

I think another thing that looks like an issue is you and Ems. I realize that you two have a strong thing going, and I respect that. I think what bugs most people is that Ems has changed, but I don't think they realize that it's not necessarily a bad thing. It's that she now carries a higher opinion of you, and it appears that you can get away with anything. But then again, that's only how it appears. People don't like change, but it's unavoidable.

Like I said, I'm sure you're great in person, but you look like you've got a beef with everyone. As for myself... Any immature gripes I had with you, I realize that none of them are important, and we all share a similar interest. Besides, you're fun to tease! :P And if I ever have a problem, you'll know it. ;)

PS - I'm gonna make typos in the chat, get over it! XD

[mew2cool]

Originally posted by Jaxtwo


You seem to have a very "strong" personality
you just tend to seem like you're trying to be a jerk. I've tended to think that that's not a bad thing, it's just your personality type, and it doesn't translate very well in a chat room.

I think what bugs most people is that Ems has changed, but I don't think they realize that it's not necessarily a bad thing. it appears that you can get away with anything. But then again, that's only how it appears.

PS - I'm gonna make typos in the chat, get over it! XD


yeah, i know i got a very straightforward personality, i say things as they are, without making them "nicer to hear" which seems to piss people off. i'm not trying to be a jerk on purpose or cause any harm. i joke a lot and people take it way too seriously. i guess they can't tell when i'm joking. anyway, if that's a problem, i'll work on it.

and yes, ems has changed. she's braver, has a better self-esteem and is happier in general than before. those are the only changes i've noticed in her personality (along with some increased naughtiness o.O; ) but i don't think any of those changes are bad.
Anyway, i don't like her butting into my problems and defending me because that gives JUST the picture that i'm using her as a shield to do as i like.And i hide behind nobody.

also, i fix typos because if i don't, chances are that the person keeps typing the word wrong over and over, and if i can make them learn to type it right, that's a good thing. sadly most of the people don't see it that way.

and you can tease me, i don't mind some friendly teasing as long as it stays as that. you're cool in my books. besides you got a beard! gotta love the beard, right? :D

[mewrei]

I don't have any problem with anyone on this forum. Granted I don't let people walk all over me(that's an IRL trait), I can tolerate a bunch of varieties of people. Cool being one of them, tehe just kidding. I all actuality, you're quite pressed hard to get me not to like you.

[mew2cool]

yeah well, i don't intentionally try to make anyone dislike me. that would be stupid. and i'm not stupid ;)

[Orgun]

I just hate everybody in temple equally ^^ but no seriously, I don't dislike you cool your a laugh to talk to most nights, its just sometimes I guess people can feel overwhelmed by your straightforwardness. Some people just like to have things done up abit to seem nicer every so often.
Btw if I make a typo its usually because I type too fast and hit the wrong key.
Also I think how ems is changed is a good thing, I just lost my calm when she started off at Raz over the text colour fiasco, everyone should really be more calm and sensible over it. Why can't everybody just be like me and stick with basic text, be boring like me, join me....
^^

[Godgolden]

what they said.. m5 is special.. very special ?.?

your fine lern 2 play it is mostly ems based and the comments, being a jerk comments but its you, your a jerk at times you've attributed this to whatever ales' you and its fairly far between.

Ems based - you already know it's up there Reh made the point i would of made, funny that aint it?

and hey Cool join the club (har har) im not that popular with alot of people on here and visa versa ^-^

[mew2cool]

o...k? sorry gg, your post was more or less unclear, i don't get what you're saying after 6 times of reading it ^^;

got some of it, but most of it didn't make sense to me.

[mewrei]

Originally posted by Orgun
I just hate everybody in temple equally ^^ but no seriously, I don't dislike you cool your a laugh to talk to most nights, its just sometimes I guess people can feel overwhelmed by your straightforwardness. Some people just like to have things done up abit to seem nicer every so often.
Btw if I make a typo its usually because I type too fast and hit the wrong key.
Also I think how ems is changed is a good thing, I just lost my calm when she started off at Raz over the text colour fiasco, everyone should really be more calm and sensible over it. Why can't everybody just be like me and stick with basic text, be boring like me, join me....
^^
Most nights XDDD

Plus I know you don't use EMs to further your goals. I have one to many lumps of coal up my ass to let that happen XDD

[mew2cool]

o...k? that was a weird but oh-so-hilarious metaphor, but i have no idea what that means XD

[mewrei]

It's from an American 80's movie under the name "Farris Bueler's Day Off" It's hillarious.

[Zephyr Analea]

Originally posted by mewrei
It's from an American 80's movie under the name "Farris Bueler's Day Off" It's hillarious.
Great movie X3

[mew2cool]

please stay on topic people. and zeph, your name's up there, but it seems you just ignored it ._.

[emsiecat]

Has Zeph been on at al lately? And yeah I obviously don't have a problem with you if I did I'd tell you. And furthermore if I change I change, it doesn't mean it's a bad change everyone does it and I could mention a few people who I believe have changed for the worst. *shrug* I no longer talk as much as I've said before it's a combo of - college, surfing different sites rather than chatting, not knowing what to talk about, less time on my hands than when I first joined and the fact I don't believe I should have to initiate every conversation I have with people on IM messengers.

[Jaxtwo]

Originally posted by mew2cool
please stay on topic people. and zeph, your name's up there, but it seems you just ignored it ._.

Zeph is a fun-loving person, and she calls everyone by funny names. Just like people are misunderstanding you, I think you're misunderstanding her. She's doing it out of being silly, nothing more.

[mew2cool]

yeah well, i've told her not to << i don't want to be called by a "funny" name. i want to be called by my SN or real name.

[Zephyr Analea]

Originally posted by mew2cool
please stay on topic people. and zeph, your name's up there, but it seems you just ignored it ._.

Ems is right, I haven't been on much lately, so I missed readin that post. If it has really bothered you so much to the point of depression like this, I'm sorry, but you do the exact same thing to other people, so I did not think you really cared.

[mew2cool]

i've told you several times not to call me a "person" or "cactus" or whatever XP just call me cool or mew2cool or Juho from now on please =)

[Jaxtwo]

Originally posted by mew2cool
i've told you several times not to call me a "person" or "cactus" or whatever XP just call me cool or mew2cool or Juho from now on please =)

Only if you don't call me Moron anymore! :P

[mew2cool]

i haven't called you a moron XP

[Zephyr Analea]

yes you have...a few times, actually.

[mew2cool]

but i don't even use the word "moron" o.O

[mewrei]

Point proven. Sometimes you call someone something without even realizing that you do it. More important than them stopping, is you not taking offense to it.

[mew2cool]

but i don't use the word "moron", i say "idiot" if i do. i don't like that word.

besides, i don't take offence NEARLY as easily as most people in the temple.

[Jaxtwo]

Yet you get offended when you're called a person. XD

[mew2cool]

not offended but it's annoying. like i have no identity

[MewtwoMew]

Well, it looks like this could be taken into account regarding how one person treats another: "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Basically, that means if one person is going to act rude to someone, then they should expect to get the same treatment back. The same thing goes for when a person is nice to someone. So if you want someone to be nice to you, then perhaps it'd be best to try to be nice to them. Does this make any sense to you?