(please all read) Hated because of being misunderstood?

[mew2cool]

well, i'm getting really tempted to leave the temple forever since some of the ppl here are really close-minded and have no sense of humor whatsoever. Also, i've been accused to be a racist (like wtf, i HATE racists) a sexist (hell no, i respect women.) and of hating americans (just ridiculous.i got nothing against them in general) also, when i try to explain that they've gotten me wrong, i get kicked from the chat because i'm "boring" or "nobody's interested" and ppl just keep thinking that i'm all those things when i'm not. everyone who knows me better is aware that i'm a nice guy, not some hateful racist. it's not my fault i'm misunderstood. it might be because i use the wrong words, english isn't my first language so don't blame me for that. and also, i know i'm flirty and pervy sometimes but that's mostly because of my medication, it affects a certain hormone that causes horniness in people, i try to keep it under control but....meh. all this accusing makes me sad and pissed off. i mean no harm with what i say, but ppl don't always know that i'm joking and take offence. then they hate me cus they think i was serious. jesus christ, shouldn't we be tolerant these days? aren't you casting me away yourself? aren't you kinda racist yourself since you hate me for my opinions? ppl don't even give me a chance to explain, what am i supposed to do? just change my character to please everyone else? that doesn't sound quite right to me. i'm not telling anyone to change or hate anyone for their opinions or beliefs, i'd appreciate if you'd do the same, fellow members. ok, i'm finished.

[mewrei]

technically racism doesn't exist. We are all one race, human. As far as that is concerned, its called ethnicism. But thats aside from the point.

I don't have any control over the chat so that's not my domain of control. The only reason I pick on you, Reh, and GG is because I know you three can and will keep up with me in insults which makes it funny and interesting.

I can't really justify for any of the other admins or mods so they can explain themselves here.

[Orgun]

I like you Cool most of the time ^^' and I can understand where your coming from but on occasions you can seem to go over the top just abit, some people can take this the wrong way if they don't know you to well. Now Im not bitching at you to change, of course I do get irritated by you sometimes but thats normal and I shrug it off though I do often appear to become very insulting towards you so I apologise for that, but anywho simply because you feel that people arn't giving you enough time to explain yourself then tough shit to them. If they refuse to listen to you its their problem, no reason to leave, you usually don't let people bother you so why now?
Did I mention that the temple just wouldn't be the same without you? Plus Ems would miss you lots and moan at us. We will all suffer if you leave!

[Godgolden]

i hate everybody equally, you cant take that outta me

dun leave man i need someone to pwn and i know your joking but its annoying when you become a bitch on chat as you do from time to time but hey this is coming from me how funnys that?

[Razorirr]

you go off on a tangents sometimes, we get annoyed and tell you to drop it, some times you do and other times you dont. those other times are what bug me

[hakaryu]

I agree with razor. Otherwise its fun to hang around with you

[undefined]

I've never had a problem with you.

[emsiecat]

Yup Orgun's right, you'll all suffer if he leaves! ^-^

Cool you're none of those things, you're a very nice person. I guess the newbies just don't know you that well yet and get angry when you joke. Ignore them, they ignore you or sort it out civilly and it'll be fine, no reason to leave! =)

Hope to see you on chat soon! =D *glomp*

[mew2cool]

yeah well, this was mainly meant to the female members of the temple, since they don't seem to get me at all, and are very eager to accuse, no offence. Also they don't even want to hear if i try to explain myself, but either leave the chat or tell me to change the topic. it really pisses me off, since then they have a wrong picture of me, and if someone asks them about me, they might say something that's really not me at all because they don't know me. get my point?

[Razorirr]

thats the thing though m2c, we dont want to hear the explaination. wee just want the subject dropped. the thing that you are trying to eplain made us uncomfortable and the eplaination would just add to that.

[Kiera Namir]

You do tend to say or do some things that can be somewhat offending, but I've never thought of you as a racist/sexist. =|

[mew2cool]

Originally posted by Razorirr
thats the thing though m2c, we dont want to hear the explaination. wee just want the subject dropped. the thing that you are trying to eplain made us uncomfortable and the eplaination would just add to that.

jesus christ, i hate it when people can't deal with their problems, but just ignore, avoid or hide them. that's just plain cowardliness if you ask me. why is it so hard to some ppl to confront their problems and get the things straight, after that, the problem is no more and you don't have to avoid/think about it anymore. it's the easier way really. if people have a problem with me i'd appreciate if they came to talk with me about it (i.e in PM) so we could talk it through, i'm a reasonable guy, hard to offend and willing to compromise.

[Godgolden]

here here!

[emsiecat]

I second that remark.. or third it, meh whatever o.o

[Razorirr]

one thing that ive noticed with you m2c. when you are in the chat RPing, you dont act the same way as you normally do, your more, reserved. never mentioned any of the things that tend to piss off the women on the board. Its like you slip into a second mindset.

then again i do the same thing except that my Razorirr mindset is the primary when im on the board or the chat.

[The_Evil_Mewthree]

ANYWAY... M2C SHOULD now be aware of this problem, correct? So, theory SHOULD have it that it's not going to happen again.

[mew2cool]

Originally posted by Razorirr
one thing that ive noticed with you m2c. when you are in the chat RPing, you dont act the same way as you normally do, your more, reserved. never mentioned any of the things that tend to piss off the women on the board. Its like you slip into a second mindset.

well actually, when i RP i'm more like myself IRL. i'm just way more open online. like my personality on 300% ^^;

[mew2cool]

Originally posted by The_Evil_Mewthree
ANYWAY... M2C SHOULD now be aware of this problem, correct? So, theory SHOULD have it that it's not going to happen again.


umm...what "problem"?